The Importance of Covenant Eyes

A while ago I wrote my testimony about how Covenant Eyes has greatly benefited my online accountability and facilitates a safe place online. I have tried various accountability software services out there and this is by far the best. I have been using their service for almost three years. Maybe longer. We at Exodus have even partnered with Covenant Eyes. All of our staff at Exodus uses the service. Many of my friends outside of Exodus use it. I even use it on my personal computer at home. That said, I am running their banners (at the top of the blog mixed in with ours) because I honestly … [Read more...]

Unapologetic About Prayer

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Exodus is a Christian faith based organization.  We do believe in a Living God who has His own opinions and will for our lives.  We do believe that being in communication with Him is essential.  It is essential to not only find and experience freedom in one area of life ... our Communion with God is essential for all aspects of life.  Engaging in dialog with a living God is why we call him Lord, Savior and Abba (our Father.) Here is our doctrinal statement (emphasis mine for the purpose of this post): Doctrinal Statement We believe the Scriptures of the Old and New Testament are the … [Read more...]

The Wounded Unseen – My Response to Gayle Haggard’s New Book (Alan Chambers)

Charisma Magazine has published my article The Wounded Unseen.  I conclude the article with: I am convinced that we as a church must do all we can to speak to these issues - to not only reach out to the husband or wife who struggles with their sexuality, but to also put an arm around a heartbroken spouse and walk with a family in need. If we do not, the culture will speak where we are silent.  As Gayle Haggard says, the ultimate question for her became, "Will I be the woman who washes her hands of the situation and walks away from Ted or will I be the woman who loves him and shows … [Read more...]

Please Pray for & Support Local Exodus Ministries – Graham’s Story

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Daily, the Exodus team is asked to explain who Exodus is, what we do, and why we do what we do?  As we begin to explain, we often start seeing that puzzled look that we’re so used to seeing.  And then the usual responses begin with, “you mean there are really people who struggle with unwanted homosexuality?  People can find freedom from that?”  Then, we’ll either get the response of “well, that’s just not possible” or “I didn’t know people could struggle with same sex attractions.”  On a few occasions, we’ll get the positive response of a quick, “thank you for your … [Read more...]

Gayle Haggard Releases Memoir titled “Why I Stayed” – Interview with Renee Dallas

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Gayle Haggard has been through a proverbial trial by fire for the past few years. I have been impressed with the grace, wisdom and humble boldness she obviously abides in.  You can tell the Lord is her comfort and shield. Today Gayle is releasing her memoir concerning her husband's (Megachurch and National Leader, Ted Haggard) sexual fall and resulting highly publicized aftermath titled Why I Stayed: The Choices I Made in My Darkest Hour. She will appear on The Oprah Show later today to discuss the book. For a response, we turned to trusted leader (of WifeBoat blog and online support) … [Read more...]

Calgary Church Loses Charity Status

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From LifeSiteNews.com: CALGARY, Alberta, January 21, 2010 (LifeSiteNews.com) - The Canada Revenue Agency (CRA) has revoked the charitable status of Kings Glory Fellowship (KGF), a Christian church in Calgary. CRA cites a number of issues with KGF's application, but the decision is based, in part, on the ground that certain KGF Board members have spoken out strongly against abortion, and other moral issues. "The members of the Board of Directors espouse strong negative views about sensitive and controversial issues, which may also be viewed as political, such as abortion, homosexuality, … [Read more...]

Of Gym Owners, Soy Milk and Causation

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I am not a scientist, or the son of one, but I don't think it takes a scientist to know that making the assertion that soy milk causes kids to be gay is ... ridiculous not accurate. As the following gym owner finds out, it is something that definitely should not be quoted/promoted if you haven't "...put enough thought into it." There are plenty of other topics concerning the complex nature of sexuality and sexual identity to talk about but in reality, how important is it an issue to bring up in a gym newsletter? From Gym apologises over 'soy makes kids gay' article: An Auckland gym … [Read more...]

Blog Run-down for January 22, 2010

Hello friends! I have already done several of these "run-downs" for the facebook folks who joined our page and thought it would be good to post here too. Here is a rundown of last weeks posts. If you like a particular post and would like to pass it on to your Facebook profile/message a friend or Twitter, there is a button at the end of each post for facebook and a nifty little blog bar at the bottom of the page to share with other social networks including Twitter. Just click on the appropriate button/link and it is very easy and intuitive to share these posts with your online social … [Read more...]

Mike Haley’s Shares His Story and Calls On the Church to Be Authentic and Loving (Video)

This video was made almost two years ago but it is still very relevant and powerful. Mike Haley, a former Board Member of Exodus, is a great guy. I've always appreciated his "bold love" to challenge with grace and humility. … [Read more...]

The Advocate’s 15 “Gayest” Cities

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The Advocate uses their influence as the largest gay magazine to publish a list of 15 Gayest Cities in America list is surprising. Mike Albo introduces the list (emphasis mine): Intrepid amateur sociologist Mike Albo searches for America’s 15 gayest burgs—based on a finely tuned (if totally arbitrary) calculus. Long ago, gay people settled in our nation’s largest cities. There they spruced up all the property, created every art and fashion movement, and taught entire populations how to dance. They created gayborhoods like WeHo, Chelsea, South Beach—and pretty much queered all of San … [Read more...]